Saturday 2 January 2021

It's time we had a chat about Fear ...

The audio of this blog is available here: Audio

Introduction

I wonder whether you’ve spotted a tendency for the trials of our current national situation to lead to a militant neuroticism born of fear.

It’s a danger we can all be subject to, and I suspect the various ways it shows up are leading to significant personal physical AND psychological harm.

This shows itself up in two apparently contradictory ways … but each stemming from the same roots in the heart.

It can show itself up in militant denial of reality, and also in cowering intimidation by the threat that things pose to our mortality.

Firstly, fear leads to militant denialism

The refusal to fear things that we don’t want to hear can actually harm us … but we don’t want to hear those things anyway, because they hurt us ‘like fear on our skin’!

How do you recognize this phenomenon?

Now you may see this refusal to hear and ducking behind barricades when you hear terms being hurled like: ‘Conspiracy theory, ‘Project Fear’ and ‘Scare-mongering’ … terms aimed to shame people to share in your denial of reality.

These phrases have been deployed to get back at people who are telling us what we don’t want to hear.

Usually they have been hurled without much rational engagement … they’re just words weaponized and fired to stop them saying what we don’t want to hear, when rational reasons to stop are not able to be offered.

When some sort of reason is offered, it tends to be something like: ‘your being bad for my mental health’.

These have been pretty common phrases in 2020 … this troublesome year we’ve just managed to see the end of!

Secondly, fear leads to cowering de facto atheism

It leads to a taking of everything upon oneself as if there were not a God to take care and provide for us.

There IS an embracing of unreality that is totally risk averse … whereas life carries a certain amount of risk in a fallen world and a certain amount of faith in God.

Precautions having been taken, this can begin to look like a denial of God’s ability to take care of His people, and even a holding too tightly to this age and its’ very uncertain ‘certainties’. It can begin to look like the lack of faith the careless want to accuse us of.

But in both the situations … both these responses to warnings that give rise to fear … causing fear becomes the biggest offence.

Causing fear becomes the greatest offence

Making people afraid of something is becoming the great offence of our culture.

And I have a problem going along with that, mainly because the Holy One of Israel seems to do this quite often.

So, is it by definition WRONG to point out a reality that makes someone feel fear?

Our popular discourse seems to require us believe so … you mustn’t ‘spoil’ someone’s ‘mental health’!

But we have a choice, in fact, about whether we accept that.

Now, let’s be absolutely clear, it’s not very kind to go around scaring small children!

And bullying people to see things your way because it’s YOUR way of seeing things is definitely not at all in any way justifiable.

But bullying people to shut up when they’re conveying fearful truths is really not justifiable either!

Unsurprisingly, perhaps, I’d want to say we need to be alert to what is happening here, not just hoover up the trend, and to subject this pervasive feature of our contemporary culture to both rational and Biblical scrutiny.

Now, in Scripture, the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom … but the first words of the angels to the shepherds on that first Christmas hill were the command to ‘fear not’.


1) Is it rational to reject fear just because it’s fear?

Working simply on the basis of human reason, there’s a lot of use to be made from a little fear!

In certain circumstances rightly used it is positively helpful, however you look at the issue.

a) Protecting from Danger

On 9th September last year, BBC Scotland ran a news item about a Police Scotland tweet urged people to pack essentials such as a first aid kit, radio, torch, and food and water.

Its recommendations were part of an annual Preparedness Month, which is being promoted by local authorities and emergency services across the UK.

However, the police force was accused of scaremongering.

The tweet read: "September is preparedness month. Emergencies can happen at any time and it's recommended to have a #GrabBag ready containing essential items including medication, copies of important documents, food/water, torch, radio and other personal items."

Twitter exploded with paranoid people objecting to the advice.

They couldn’t face the reality they might need such a thing.

I’ve heard of placing lifebuoys on cliff tops raising the same objection.

Can we be clear here?

It is NOT wicked to warn people of real dangers they’re ignoring and it isn’t right to be guilt-shamed when you’ve done so!

Warning isn’t cruel; failing to warn of realistic dangers when you could have done so, that on the other hand usually is.

Fear has a rational use in protecting us.

b) Teaching and maintaining Discipline

Family

The myth that children are born naturally good and that fear of the consequence of mis-behaviour is bad is not doing a lot to build happy healthy families.

It’s a lovely idea but an unworkable untruth to think children can be raised without discipline, however that discipline is applied … how it’s applied is another question altogether!

Neither is unpredictable and tyrannical parenting doing families a lot of good … this also needs to be said.

That sort of tyrranical and unpredictable parenting’s quite simply abuse.

But raising kids without known penalties for known transgressions, always consistently applied isn’t raising kids fit for life and strong relationships either. You could also call THAT a form of abuse!

It’s to be hoped we’re emerging from the daydream of the last century that children can be raised without regulations backed by sanctions (whether physical or psychological) as we deal with the psychological and social chaos in the lives of a few generations now that have been raised off the rails.

That really IS to be hoped, because pain that’s resulted has been significant.

Society

And then there’s the issue of fear in society.

A society without fear of the consequences of breaking the law does not function … but neither does one where craven fear of tyranny is an everyday feature

The reason for this is the same. People are not naturally ‘good’, and will get away with what ever they can self-justify … unless there’s a fear of external sanction being applied.

But if fear is an everyday feature, rebellion and unrest will get fermented!

The Westminster Prime Minister set out in this pandemic by appealing to people’s common sense. It really didn’t work, it lay in a false view of human nature and I’m glad to see he’s backed off doing that now and legal sanctions are published and applied.

What I’ve been trying to show is that there are rational arguments which show that fear is not wrong in itself but has benefits for individuals and societies as a whole … what matters is how and by whom it gets applied.

It’s not RATIONAL to reject fear just because it’s fear.

2) Is it Biblical to reject fear just because it is fear?

Perhaps the best treatment of fear from a Biblical perspective that I’ve personally ever read comes from a Puritan Minister – part of one of the UK’s biggest back to the Bible movement - who’d seen a lot of fear close up and personal.

That minister was called John Flavel. He lived before the NHS, before medical science, before the DHSS and during the reign of a number of persecuting Kings.

To cut a long story short, he knew shipwreck at sea and state persecution and lived through a difficult time, and his writings about fear are available for free download (click his pic!)

According to John Flavel, then, in his  A Practical Treatise of FearLondon, John Reid, 1684, there are Biblically three kinds of human fear to be identified.

The first of these is natural fear.

National Library of Wales,
Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons

a) Natural fear

“Natural fear is the trouble or perturbation of mind, from the apprehension of approaching evil, or impending danger.” (Flavel p. 11)”

So, in Genesis 3:8, when Adam disobeyed God and ate the fruit he knew to be forbidden, Adam immediately hid. Why? It was because he feared the consequence of his actions.

That sort of experience is common now to humanity, having passed down from Adam to all his descendants.

Even the Lord Himself, when He came ‘in the likeness of human flesh’ (Romans 8:3), entered voluntarily into this universal human weakness as well. It’s worth remembering His prayer in the Garden that if possible ‘this cup’ would pass from Him, and that He sweat as if great drops of blood in the anguish of anticipation the night before His sacrifice for sin.

That is a NATURAL fear.

The object of our fears is evil coming to us … but it’s evil that’s wrong not the fear of it, because natural fear has a function that’s really helpful.

Flavel has a really contemporary observation to make on this:

“it is worth observation, that all carnal security is maintained by putting evils at a great distance from us, as it is noted of those secure sensualists, Amos 6:3. "They put far from them the evil day." The meaning is not that they did, or could put the evil one minute farther from them in reality, but only by imagination and fancy: they shut their own eyes, and would not see it, lest it should give an unpleasing

interruption to their mirth; and this is the reason why death puts the living into no more fear, because it is apprehended as remote, and at an undetermined distance, whereas if the precise time of death were known, especially if that time were near, it would greatly scar and terrify.” (Flavel p. 13)

b) Sinful fear

Flavel says that this is “the fear wherewith carnal and unbelieving men do fear

when dangers threaten them; and the sinfulness of it lies in five things:” (Flavel p. 14)

1.     The first thing it comprises is the distrust of God which makes us afraid to trust God’s promise or protection as we set about doing what God wants us to do.
Flavel gives the example of Isaiah 30:15 ff. where instead of trusting the promise of God in the face of the powerful Sennacherib’s awesome attack, the Israelites went off and bought Egyptian miIitary help and therefore paid what turned out to be an unacceptable price.
When faith goes out the door fear comes in, and fear chases faith from the door.

2.     The second component found in sinful fear identified by Flavel is to fear something far more than we should. He calls it ‘immoderacy’ which means a lack of balance … the feared consequence is nowhere near so bad as we thought … it’s an unrealistic panic which bears back on lack of trust in God for not allowing us to face threats that large.

3.      The third component Flavel uncovers as he analyses sinful fear is the tendency to credit what we fear with more power over us than it actually has; “To trust in any creature, as if it had the power of a God to help us, or to fear any creature, as if it had the power of a God to hurt us, is exceeding sinful, and highly provoking to God.”  (Flavel, p. 16)
So, Matthew 10:28 says:
Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell.”
The Lord is being really blunt with His disciples there but that seems to me like a fairly fundamental calculation to make … and one that could keep you from reacting to threats in ways that could cause you significant harm if you don’t reckon those odds at the right time.

      Certainly this consideration should crop up in our Risk Assessments on a regular basis!

4.      Fourthly Flavel uncovers the way fear distracts the heart from courses of action we should and would otherwise be taking … resulting in sin.
“The best men find it hard to keep their thoughts from wandering, and their minds from distraction, in the greatest calm of peace, but a thousand times harder in the hurries and tumults of fear.” Flavel, p. 18

5.      Fifthly Flavel warns us of the sinfulness of this sinful fear in that it tends to lead mankind to walk away from the way the Lord would have us address our fears to grasp at man-made and inadequate substitutes.
 Hebrews 2:15 speaks of Jesus Who had made “… free those who all their lives were held in slavery by their fear of death.”

Now, that’s an awful lot from John Flavel there, but I hope you can see things that are common to our spiritual experience with the fight against fear with this man who lived such a much more precarious life than ours, in the English Midlands then for so long mainly in and around Plymouth  roughly four centuries ago.

He describes Natural fear, sinful fear and then what he calls ‘religious fear’.

Words change their meaning over time, and what he describes as religious fear we’d probably understand better if we call it ‘Godly fear’

c) Godly fear

Our culture has no idea about this … so it seems like nonsense and is immediately discounted, but just give this a minute and hear old Flavel out …

Because Flavel makes what to us seems a rather counter-cultural point in these words:
There is an holy and laudable fear, a fear which is our treasure, not our torment; the chief ornament of the soul, its beauty and perfection, not its infelicity or sin, viz. the awful filial fear of God; natural fear is a pure and simple passion of the soul; sinful fear is the disordered and corrupt passion of the soul;              https://www.geograph.org.uk/photo/247682

but this is the natural passion sanctified, and thereby changed and baptized into the name and nature of a spiritual grace.”

What’s he ON about?

He explains himself like this:

“It is one of the sorest judgments to be in the fear of man day and night, Deut. 28:65, 66, 67. and one of the sweetest mercies to be in the fear of God all the day long, Prov. 23:17.

The fear of man shortens our days, Isa. 22:24. but the fear of the Lord prolongeth our days, Prov. 10:27.

The fear of the Lord is a fountain of life, Prov. 14:27.

 But the fear of man a fountain of mischiefs and miseries: By the fear of the Lord men depart from evil, Prov. 16:6. but, by the fear of man men run themselves into evil, Prov. 29:25.”

OK … there’s some sense there so far, so come on now John Flavel, let’s get to the point, man!

“This fear is a gracious habit or principle planted by God in the soul, whereby the soul is kept under an holy awe of the eye of God, and from thence is inclined to perform and do what pleaseth him, and to shun and avoid whatsoever he forbids and hates.”

As you might reasonably imagine, Flavel has several points that he wants to make about this fear of God:

a) Godly fear is God’s work in the human heart

The NIV for Jeremiah 32:40 doesn’t duck the hard ball the way a number of other modern translations do – it says I will make an everlasting covenant with them: I will never stop doing good to them, and I will inspire them to fear me, so that they will never turn away from me.”

The NET translation isn’t so good as that until you get to the footnotes which are much more helpful:
“I will make them want to fear and respect me so much that”; Heb “I will put the fear of me in their hearts.” However, as has been noted several times, “heart” in Hebrew is more the center of volition (and intellect) than the center of emotions as it is in English. Both translations are intended to reflect the difference in psychology.”

This protective ‘fear’ we’ve read of here, then, is to be understood as the gift of God prophesied for the New Covenant blessing and is promised as part of the EVERLASTING covenant the Lord made in Christ.

b) Godly fear builds a consciousness that the eye of God our Master is upon us, His servants

That’s a great thing … because it makes us conscious of the fellowship we have with God and builds our relationship of love and service to Him throughout our days!

It’s also a great thing because it makes us realise both that we are not alone with the things that come our way in life, and that He is watching us not only being aware of whether we are living to do His work but also being aware of what we need moment by moment to do it!

c) Godly fear leads to a glad willingness to do the will of God
We fear the consequences of stepping out of the love of our Heavenly Father … which we very much prefer to keep experiencing.

d) Godly fear strengthens us to avoid displeasing God

And as in Job’s experience (Job 1:3) it enables the person who lives in this godly fear and awe of God to avoid things that would displease the Loving Father.

Conclusion

We do tend in our culture to identify fear as a very bad thing in itself.

The tendency is to think of self-confidence as an entitlement, being accountability-free as a human right.
The fruit of that is plain to see in the effects the failure of humans to live in the fear of God have created.

Some men owe their death to their fears, but good men, in a sense, owe their lives to their fears; sinful fears have slain some, and godly fears have saved others.

“A wise man feareth and departeth from evil, (saith Solomon) but a fool rageth and is confident.”
(That’s a reference to Proverbs 14:16).

“His fears give him a timely alarm before the enemy fall into his quarters, and beat

them up; by this means he hath time to get into his chambers of security

and rest before the storm fall: But the fool rageth, and is confident," he

never fears till he begin to feel; yea, most time he is past all hope before

he begin to have any fear.” (Flavel p. 25)

But thinking as if fear is only a bad thing in and of itself and to be denied and run from and avoided, really fails to see it’s Biblical benefits to the person who walks with God.

Flavel concludes his argument with reference to a crucial passage in Isaiah 8:12-13, which he feels makes the point he wants to get to:

‘Do not call conspiracy

    everything this people calls a conspiracy;

do not fear what they fear,

    and do not dread it.

The Lord Almighty is the one you are to regard as holy,

    he is the one you are to fear,

    he is the one you are to dread.”

Flavel’s point is that this graciously given fear of the good God, is what drives out the fears we otherwise face without it.

Humanity’s revulsion from fear is therefore hurting it, but we shall need to track that idea through this passage in Isaiah 8 … and that’s what we’ll be coming to in this podcast

Outline

Introduction. 1

Firstly, fear leads to militant denialism.. 1

Secondly, fear leads to cowering de facto atheism.. 1

Causing fear becomes the greatest offence. 2

1) Is it rational to reject fear just because it’s fear?. 3

a) Protecting from Danger 3

b) Teaching and maintaining Discipline. 3

Family. 3

Society. 4

2) Is it Biblical to reject fear just because it is fear?. 4

a) Natural fear 5

b) Sinful fear 5

c) Godly fear 7

i) It is God’s work in the human heart 7

ii) It builds a consciousness that the eye of God our Master is upon us, His servants. 8

iii) It leads to a glad willingness to do the will of God. 8

iv) Strengthens us to avoid displeasing God. 8

Conclusion. 8

 

 John Flavel's A Practical Treatise of Fear (London 1684) can be downloaded as an eBook using this link:

 Flavel, A Practical Treatise of Fear

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